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Having A Boyfriend Is Embarrassing. But It’s Worth it Anyway.

Katie Spillane • November 9, 2025

Women who are both chronically online and slightly annoying have spent the last week enamored with a debate about dating and embarrassment—one that I, as someone who fits squarely in that intersection,...

Courage to Date

Pat Connell • February 14, 2025

I think we are the first generation where sex is less awkward to talk about than dating. In order to not further risk my chances of getting into heaven, I’ll be talking about the latter—I’m told BC priests read these articles every now and then. Strap in! In case you didn’t know, Merriam-Webster defines date as “the brown, oblong edible fruit of a palm (Phoenix dactylifera).”

Only Child, Lonely Child?

Jenny Hotchkiss • October 23, 2023

Growing up as an only child, I was constantly asked, “Do you like it?”—almost always with a dismissive tone, as if it were impossible that I could enjoy being the only child in my family.

Playing Games in Situationship Culture

Mary Perez • October 15, 2023

The Boston College student is marked by a competitive spirit—a spirit not confined to the classroom. Although we consider ourselves men and women for others, we also seek success for ourselves.

How to Break Up With Your Boy/Girlfriend, If You’re Bored

Danielle Thomas • March 24, 2019

"Pick whatever type of breakup works for the kind of person you are."

You’re Single? Good

John Miotti • February 10, 2016

We need to stop pursuing relationships like we do a homework assignment or internship. Finding a life partner cannot be another checkmark on your college to-do list.

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