The unmistakable opening notes of Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas Is You” started playing the minute the clock struck midnight on Nov. 1. Listening to Christmas music in my Halloween costume felt … wrong. I couldn’t help but think, “What do you mean it’s suddenly Christmas? Where did the time go?”

It’s easy to get swept up in the excitement and nostalgia of Christmas, and people waste no time embracing it. But in that rush we tend to skip over Thanksgiving, arguably the perfect transition between Halloween and Christmas. 

When we only focus only on what comes next, we forget to appreciate the beauty of slowing down. Thanksgiving offers a cozy, quiet charm that is all too often underappreciated.

Here are a few ways to slow the pace this holiday season and make the most of all Thanksgiving has to offer.

Enjoy the Fall Foliage

To fully appreciate the fact that Thanksgiving arrives just before the bitter cold, embrace the fall landscape. Go outside and enjoy the crisp fall air before it gets too cold.

If the thought of participating in a turkey trot makes you cringe, taking a walk is a great alternative. You can enjoy the bright fall colors and cultivate Thanksgiving vibes, all while getting your steps in. 

It always helps to have a destination—maybe a cafe or small shop to warm up. You might be surprised at the pretty sights you pass along the way.

Embrace Comfort 

Break out the fuzzy socks, slippers, and sweatpants. I’m a firm believer that Thanksgiving is meant to be experienced in comfort. Lean into the coziness of late fall and curl up with a movie or book. 

My recommendations include the iconic A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving, Little Women, Pride and Prejudice, or any Thanksgiving episode of Friends (basic, yes—but guaranteed to get you in the holiday spirit). 

Taking time to enjoy the little things you don’t have time for during the school year can help you rest and recharge.

Cook 

Since Thanksgiving revolves around food, why not try a new recipe? Put on fun music, light some candles, and put on an apron (or even a chef’s hat if you’re feeling bold). 

Being home for Thanksgiving usually means having access to a fully-stocked kitchen, so take advantage of it. Whether it’s a warm soup or fruity pie, your options are limitless when you aren’t paying for the groceries. 

And if your new recipe doesn’t turn out the way you hoped, at least you can say you tried. Remember—beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 

Friendsgiving

Invite your friends over and celebrate Friendsgiving

Friendsgiving is a great way to appreciate Thanksgiving even while still on campus. This is a great opportunity to bring the holidays to school and soak up time with friends before finals and holiday chaos. 

Have fun with it—make homemade decorations, and experiment with dishes you can create in your dorm. 

Watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade

Nothing screams “I love America!” like getting cozy on the couch and watching the flashy, choreographed elves dance down the streets of New York City at 9 a.m. 

The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is a staple in my household, and I believe it signals an appropriate transition to the Christmas season. Personally, I always get excited to see what character will become the next huge balloon. 

My guess for this year? A massive Labubu, and I stand by that.